The Final Rose

Well, Im sure a lot of you have been watching the infamous Bachelorette this summer, with all its blunders, confusion, fake romance and mistakes (Ashley...). Between eating Olive Garden and sitting in my extremly cold basement watching this  romantically fabricated reality show I began to wonder, is there an appropriate scene for romance? Every passionate scene on this show isn't at home in a quaint kitchen making tea, nor taking a walk through a park. It is on the beaches of Australia or in the heart of Hawaii. Really who wouldn't fall in love in such amazing and exotic places? Thus my question arose, as women we want to me swept off our feet, given attention and affection...and it should not matter where we meet or how, but the connection between the two despite the outward circumstances? That intimate bond thats left after years of physical changes and adapting to life in different ways is the real mark of a lasting relationship. This show is so entertaining and does give positive outcomes though few and far between, but this isn't a good example of romance, God gives us mountains and valleys NOT beaches and high end bungalo's to shape us for our relationships, and that is what we should look forward to.

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