The Rhythm of Love

Im sitting in my family room, watching The Desperate Housewives of New York,  first wondering why this show exists but secondly, the idea of a trophy wife came to mind. Is it true as a women, in this society we must obtain a certain physical look and status to be exceptable to a man or in order to keep him? As a women of christ what is our role as a wife physically speaking? It isnt like I am ANY WHERE near ready to get married but this is a blog..so I'm blogging :) As society suggests, is it our duty to keep ourselves looking young by any surgical or natural way possible to conserve our self esteem and the love of our husband? And the answer is... NO- Want to know why? Corinthians 4:16-18 says, "  For this reason we never become discouraged. Even though our physical being is gradually decaying, yet our spiritual being is renewed day after day.  And this small and temporary trouble we suffer will bring us a tremendous and eternal glory, much greater than the trouble....

High school brought love and loss in many different ways for almost about everyone. What ever your story  this is for every girl, in love, in loss, or even in waiting. Me? I've had few but very important relationships, ranging from a 1 month relationship  to where I am now..having just celebrated our 10 month. As I sat today I started remembering my first relationship with a baseball player my sophmore year in high school, and started thinking about my aunt and uncle and my mothers parents..both couples were high school sweethearts, what if you start dating someone in high school seriouslly? Is it true those relationships arent "real" relationships? Its always been an unspoken idea that high school relationships are not true, that those couples are forever stuck in "puppy love" and will, with out a doubt break up some time before college. Personally I have no idea, though my one relationship was a complete and utter failure a week in, from a distance I have watc...