The first of many...

High school brought love and loss in many different ways for almost about everyone. What ever your story  this is for every girl, in love, in loss, or even in waiting. Me? I've had few but very important relationships, ranging from a 1 month relationship  to where I am now..having just celebrated our 10 month. As I sat today I started remembering my first relationship with a baseball player my sophmore year in high school, and started thinking about my aunt and uncle and my mothers parents..both couples were high school sweethearts, what if you start dating someone in high school seriouslly? Is it true those relationships arent "real" relationships? Its always been an unspoken idea that high school relationships are not true, that those couples are forever stuck in "puppy love" and will, with out a doubt break up some time before college. Personally I have no idea, though my one relationship was a complete and utter failure a week in, from a distance I have watched relationships blossom out of young kinship, some going on 4 years and like Ive said, some 45 years. My question is, should we always count out relashionships we start in high school or can we view them as most do only in college? 
-Kat

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  1. KaitJune 10, 2011 at 4:10 PM

    There is always change in relationship, whether you get married to your high school sweetheart, college sweetheart, or in your thirties. The thing that keeps you together through it all is knowing your partner and changing/growing together. It's when that doesn't happen that it fails. You can't expect some one to be the same at 16, 21, 30, 40, etc. Love you blog Kat!

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